11-25: What’s The Deal With…

Grown folks sexting each other?

You know what sexting is – sending NSFW pics of your body and/or commentary about what you’re gonna do to someone via text message.

The media latched onto sexting & proclaimed it the biggest problem facing the youth. But I think its the biggest problem facing grown folks! I mean come on, it seems like everyone is showing their goodies to anyone that has a cell phone!

I cannot tell you the number of pics I’ve received – for some reason dudes are more than happy showing their wang to any and everyone. Its like they can’t wait to show it off…like that kid back in kindergarden that was so in love with his wang that he had to show all the girls.

C’mon on fellas! I mean, really…I do like seeing a nice wang every now & again, but sending unsolicited pics all willy-nilly? So not cool. I’d like a bit of a warning before I open a text or a BBM message (that’s Blackberry messenger for those not in the know) and have my eyes assaulted.

Now, I’m not saying that folks should be prudes or anything, or that folks in relationships can’t keep it spicy…but perhaps we all should be a bit more discriminating in who we send a pic to…and definitely don’t send a pic that would allow you to be positively identified. And maybe you should think about asking first before you just send a shot of your body…cause you never know how it will be received…and there’s nothing worse than sending a pic and getting the *crickets* (I know cause I’ve given the *crickets* response & he got pissy about it – oh well, don’t send me unsolicited pics! But I digress…).

We all grown, so let’s act like it, shall we? Keep your freaky texts to yourself, your boo/SO/JO/FwB and keep it moving…Or at least wait until someone asks you for the pic…

What yall think? Do you enjoy receiving unsolicited XXX pics via text? Do you ask for them? Let me know!
  • Reecie

    I love XXX pics. love them. I don’t really ask for them, but I’m happy to receive them. I’m a visual person, so it works for me. If I take em I don’t ever show my face. lol. I make sure to delete them before I switch my phones out…

  • Trekei

    cause they grown and do what they wanna lol, keep sending em to me , i wont refuse.

  • Robin

    I’d much rather receive pics from someone that I’m interested in rather than someone that I don’t know.

  • Reecie

    oh yeah I totally meant from someone I’m into/with. not strangers!!!!

  • Anonymous

    it comes in handy(no pun intended lol) if your bored or in the mood and not near your mate. But i;m against just randomly sexting with a random or unwilling person:)

  • Jubilance

    I like the pics from dudes who I know…but I’ve had dudes that I just met send me wang pics…WTF? Who sends that to a complete stranger? Can we even have a “getting to know you” convo first?

  • CodyG

    Never have gotten or sent one but it wouldn’t be a big deal if its from someone I know. Actually I wouldn’t mind too much if it was a stranger either…if she’s cute.

  • Tunde

    i have sent pics before but never to someone that i wasn’t involved with or already that understanding with. i would never send a naked pic where my face was included or any identifying marks on my body.

    who really sends naked pics to someone who didn’t ask for them or someone you just met? not a good look.

    now if someone were to send me a naked pic unsolicited then i wouldn’t refuse it. might get the sideeye from me but i certainly wouldn’t refuse it.

  • aunaptural

    At the risk of being too candid… Pics are fine but penetration is better. The wang shots just don’t do anything for me. *shrug* And no unsolicited pics from strangers. Who does that?!!