An Experiment

This is purely an observation..but it seems like whenever I like a guy, start dating him, and then talk about it the whole thing blows up in my face.

Guy makes it into the blog? Starts acting up.
Tell my friends about him? He disappears.
Its been frustrating.
So I’m planning to do an experiment: I’m keeping my mouth shut on my romantic life for the next 30 days, just to see how it goes. No getting advice from friends, no sharing about how its going, no ranting about how he’s pissed me off.
I’ll report back on how it goes….
  • Alphanista

    Interesting! But this only happens because we think it will happen, the only way to combat this is to talk about it and think differently—that it will work–its not a jinx–let me know how it goes with the experimeny!

  • Anonymous

    I think I’m going to do this as well. It seems the same thing happens to me almost all the time.

    30 days is a lot..may as well get on with it.

    Know you’ll have a reader doing 30 days with you.

    Good luck!

  • P.

    Tsk tsk…….

  • aunaptural

    Great idea! I too will be looking forward to the results of this experiment. Best wishes 🙂

  • Reecie

    I totally think this is a good idea! I think that its a good idea because I think we can jinx things, and when they don’t work out you have folks asking you “what happened to that guy”. always a discussion you don’t want to have. It could be because I’m kinda secretive/private but I like to wait things out…all that to say, I’ll check witcha in about 45 days. LOL

  • Daydreamer

    You know I’ve often wanted to try this but I get too excited to keep things to myself. Maybe I just have a big mouth- but it’s only to the same 5 people….sigh. Anyway, how’s it going? Wait, answer me that in 10 days! 🙂

  • Daydreamer

    It’s been a month… Sooooo????