A Good Reason For A Blogging Break

The last time I blogged, I was heading to Italy with LM for our first anniversary trip. We spent 10 glorious days traveling through Italy, visiting Rome, Florence, Venice and Milan. I drank a lot of prosecco, ate my weight in gelato, saw some of the most amazing sights ever, and enjoyed every moment with my favorite guy, celebrating that we’d made it to one year in our marriage. I came home with every intention to share all the details and photos from my trip. I even started writing – I have the draft posts to prove it. But I never finished them, cause I got distracted by more pressing concerns.

We’d been back from our trip for a week, when I had a sudden urge for pickles, and we just happened to have a jar in the fridge. Before I knew it, I’d eaten half the jar. LM came home, looked in the fridge, and said “damn, who ate all the pickles???” When I sheepishly confessed it was me, he immediately said “oh you’re pregnant, go take a test”.

Before he said it, I’d already been thinking it. I was late and secretly hoping I was, but I also didn’t want to face the disappoint that I wasn’t pregnant. I told myself that I was just late because we’d been traveling, even though I’d never experienced that in my life. I suppose that part of me needed someone else to believe I was pregnant, before I would I would allow myself to. The test confirmed what we both already knew – I was pregnant!

#BabyPi is happening and we’re over the moon.

I spent all summer growing a little human, learning everything I could, and trying to survive all the pregnancy symptoms I was experiencing. I spent most of my first trimester not doing much beyond going to work, falling asleep at 7pm, and trying to control my nausea. I wasn’t even writing for APW, as I had zero energy or ideas, and thankfully the team was very understanding. Once I hit my second trimester, I got my energy back as well as my mojo. I’ve done some great posts on APW, but I didn’t have a strong desire to write in my own space. Why? I have no idea.

So here we are, now 24 weeks into growing this little human. We found out #BabyPi is a girl, and I’m so excited to have a daughter. I really wanted my firstborn to be a girl, as I am my mother’s firstborn and I want to replicate that relationship as much as I can. I’ve also found that this pregnancy has brought my mom and I even closer, as I try to learn as much as I can. My mom is amazing, like best mother ever, and I really hope that I can live up to her example, and parent my daughter just as well. Already #BabyPi is showing that she’s going to be a daddy’s girl – she responds to LM’s requests to kick or stop kicking, and it’s hilarious.

Beyond the excitement of pregnancy, my life has been pretty quiet and chill. Work has been going well, with just enough to keep me occupied but not enough to stress me out. I’m back to knitting, and finally going to start the Etsy shop that I’ve been talking about for months. And it’s football season – my favorite time of year and best excuse to sit on the couch and knit. My goal is also to write here more, here’s hoping I can make that happen.

So…what yall been up to while I was gone?

  • Andre

    Congratulations! That is great news. I know you all are beyond excited. I’m also happy of the bonding with you and your mother. Praying blessings for all of you.