Since the last time I wrote. I had a lot on my plate, a lot on my mind, I celebrated my 28th birthday, and did some traveling. So this is probably gonna turn into a long-ass recap post, apologizes in advance.
The last time I wrote about myself, I was struggling with my dating situation with the attorney & his lack of desire to be in a committed relationship after months of dating. I gave it a lot of thought, and then I decided to leave it alone. We continued to see each other, and I just felt like it was a futile effort. I had trouble making a clean break, mostly cause I was hoping too hard for something to change.
While I was trying to figure that out, I was still going on dates with other dudes. One guy (we’ll call him Akeem – think Coming to America, cause he’s Nigerian) pursued me hard-core, but I wasn’t very interested. The first time we went out, it was late & I was super-tired, and he turned me off when he started talking about how much easier Black ppl have it in this country. I gave him one more chance, and the second date was even worse – I had to have my friend call me so that I could escape! I was so done with Akeem, but he was persistent. He flat-out told me that he was going to pursue me until I told him to leave me alone…so I gave him one more chance. I’m glad I did cause that date was great, we really got a chance to talk and get to know each other. We have a lot in common & enjoy each other’s company…and as a plus he’s pro-relationship.
The Friday before my birthday I had a birthday dinner with my Mpls friends. I had a good time, tho Akeem didn’t make it & didn’t call (long story). The attorney was there tho…and that night was the night I was finally done. I was finally ready to be done. It wasn’t worth it anymore to try to keep something going. I hope that we can still be friends, but I doubt we will, he’s too distant & detached.
Usually I do a birthday trip with LK, but he flaked on me this year, so I decided to go home & see my family. I’m glad I did, I had such a good time. I drove home because I refused to spend $350 on a flight. The drive was ok, I had my road rage moments with the slow folks who refuse to leave the left lane, but overall it was ok.
So what did I do at home? Well let’s see….My first day there I met my mom’s new boyfriend – he’s a nice guy & my mom is like a giddy teenager, she’s so happy. The next day I met my sister’s boyfriend – he’s very tall & very sweet with my sister, I’m glad she’s happy. I spent a lot of time with my nieces – they have gotten so big! They each have their own little personalities, and its funny to see how they act & interact with each other. I chopped it up with my brothers, spent time with my sister, hung with the homies, and I even reconciled with my dad…we hadn’t talked in several years, but we talked & I’m glad we did.
Sadly my vacation was too short, and I was really dreading going back to work, but surprisingly it has been less stressful. I’m dissatisfied tho, I really thought this new job was going to excite me, but it doesn’t. I think I’m really just ready to be out of the lab totally. But that’s a post for another time.
So…I think you guys are all caught up now. I’ve just been living & trying to figure out what my next move is, while enjoying life.